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I AM A WOMAN

I AM A WOMAN So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality..... Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him" I cheat, and I am called a whore, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irres...
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Value added wife

 *THE REAL REASON WHY JACOB LOVED RACHAEL*  Many think that Jacob loved Rachael because she was beautiful, beauty only attracts a man to a woman but what determines his true love for a woman goes beyond beauty. Rachael was not just beautiful, she was industrious per excellent. Why do we have a lot of beautiful ladies today yet no husband? Because beauty without value and virtue is like a smoke. What impressed and attracted Jacob to Rachael was her industriousness. While her brothers and elder sister Leah were at home, Rachael singlehandedly brought her father's flock to the well. That was where Jacob met her for the first time. No sensible man can resist a woman who is beautiful and industrious. What made a man worked for 7 years for the woman he loved and yet felt like he just worked for 7 days? Value! My man doesn't respect me, is because you are not a Value-Added-Woman (VAM). Do you realized that Jacob did not pay Leah's bride price? They gave him Leah as bonus. Because ...
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New year's message for the couple

 10 NEW YEAR GOALS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE  Hubby and I have written our goals for the year and I thought it was a good idea to share goals which would be helpful to other marriages too. Enjoy the read😊 1. Ensure to pray at least once a day with your spouse. If you don't live together, pray over the phone. A couple that prays together stays together😊 2. Apologise immediately. Don't let hurts linger. This year, choose to apologise, not your way but the way your spouse appreciates it. Know your spouse's language of apology. In the same vein, forgive in advance. Your spouse will offend you, most of the time unintentionally, give allowance for offences and when they happen, be willing and ready to forgive. Don't give room for the enemy to sow seeds of bitterness in your heart and marriage.  3. Be committed to budgeting. We have a fortnightly budget that we started last year and it really worked for us! Now we are debt free!  Buy only what you can afford, if you can't afford...
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